How to Live the Life You Want — Kara Payton

Your ability to live the life you want depends on your ability to choose to feel the way you want.

The feeling precedes the reality.

In choosing to feel the way you want now, you become an energetic magnet to what you desire.

I know you’ve heard this before, but in living as though conditions make the difference, we show we do not believe it.

You won’t be happy WHEN you get that job, find that spouse, lose that weight, buy that house or receive that money.

You will get those things when you become an energetic match to them.

I’m not talking about vision boards, positive thinking and a bunch of fluff you also don’t believe in. I’m talking about bringing your whole being into those visions until you feel it as though it were already your reality. EMOTION puts things in motion. Thoughts without them are weightless information. The emotion makes it land.

Why does this matter? To feel it first? Because we have to be able to loosen our grip on the current circumstances, the “reality” to provide a little wiggle room for the new energy to flow. The energy of receiving. The energy of what is feels concrete, therefore, energetically its sticky and acts as a block.

In your constant appeal of what you desire, most of us are clinging to the reality we don’t want and wondering why we don’t move. If you were climbing a rope but wouldn’t let go to grab higher, do you think you’d be able to reach the top?

When you think of your current, try and go general in describing or feeling it. Back up, lighten it, loosen it, unfix your details and distract your focus or focus elsewhere entirely. At the same time, tighten your focus on the details of what you desire, fix and draw into the feelings it would bring.

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Originally published at https://www.karapayton.com on August 18, 2021.